Monthly Supports Archive
Conversation Starters, Making Connections activities suggestions and Resources from previous months are posted here by month. Open the month section and scroll down to the desired grade level.
By Month
- September Supports: 5th-, 8th-, 11th-grade
- October Supports: 5th- , 8th- , 11th-grade
- November Supports 5th-, 8th-, 11th-grade
- December Supports 5th-, 8th-, 11th -Grade
- February Supports 5th-, 8th-, 11th-Grade
- March Supports 5th-, 8th-, 11th-Grades
- April Supports 5th-, 8th-, 11th-Grades
September Supports: 5th-, 8th-, 11th-grade
5th Grade September SEL & T24 Lessons Supports
September SEL Topic: Courage, Stand Safe, Stay Strong
Conversation Starters:
1. What makes you feel safe? Unsafe?
2. Which adult at school do you trust the most and why?
3. What would you do if your friend was bullied?
Making Connections:
1. Establish a family rule about keeping private parts private. No photos in the bath.
2. Practice with your child what he/she should do if in an uncomfortable situation.
3. Post emergency phone numbers on the refrigerator.
September T24 Topic: Law, Public Service & Security, Transportation, Distribution & Logistics
Conversation Starters:
1. What do you think your bus driver likes most about his/her job? How is this different than driving a city bus?
2. See that plane in the sky… who do you think is in it? Where are they going? What is the job of the pilot?
3. Which job do you think would be the best for you? Helping people? Fixing things? Making machines go?
Making Connections:
1. Bring treats to the fire fighters at a station near you.
2. Have your child solve a mystery of something missing at home. Give clues and hints until the item is “found.”
3. Look under the hood of your car to see all the things that could be repaired. If you know what some of the parts are for, point these out.
September 8th Grade SEL & T24 Supports
September SEL Topic: Bullying
Conversation Starters:
1. What do you think motivates bullies to make others afraid or anxious?
2. How would you be an ally for someone who is being bullied?
3. Who is a trusted adult at school and away from school to whom you could talk to if you or someone you know is being bullied?
Making Connections:
1. Draw a circle and write the word Target in the middle. Draw thought bubbles around the circle and write in statements that could be supportive of a person who is being bullied.
2. Make list of deflective statements or actions your child could use if bullied. Role play scenarios where the practiced words and behaviors are used.
3. Discuss how your student could become a leader in preventing bullying. What kind of program would they design if they were in charge of stopping in-person and cyberbullying? Who would they get to help with this project?
September T24 Topic: Navigate & Endorsement Review
Conversation Starters:
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Making Connections:
1. Look at this chart together. Which jobs have potential to grow? Which are on the decline? Read the job descriptions for a few and put a star by the ones that sound interesting.
2. If you had to find a job today, what would you choose? Look on a job posting website such as Indeed. Which jobs available in Houston would you like to do? Will they pay you enough? Which endorsement would help you get this job?
3. Make a list of as many adults as you know and include their jobs. Next time you see any of them, ask them if they like their job, how they got their to this career, and what they wish they had done differently when they were your age.
September 11th grade SEL-T24 Lesson Supports
September 11th Grade SEL Focus: Suicide Prevention
Conversation Starters:
1. What are some suicide risk behaviors that should raise a red flag if we observe them?
2. When you feel down, what do you do? With whom is it best to talk it out? What is the best way for you to hear or receive advice?
3. What would you do if your friend told you he was thinking about suicide, but asked you to promise not to tell anyone?
Making Connections:
1. Practice having a conversation about suicide between your child and a “friend.’ What are things to do or say that will make the depressed person feel less alone?
2. Make wallet cards with the 1-800-SUICIDE (784-2433) number on them for your student to hand out to friends.
3. Post emergency phone numbers on the refrigerator.
September 11th Grade T24 Focus: SAT/ACT
Conversation Starters:
1. What are the differences between the ACT and SAT? On which do you think you are best suited to do well? Why or why not?
2. If you are not thinking about going to college, why is it still important to prepare and take the ACT and SAT?
3. What is the average SAT or ACT score for admission to ______ university? Where can you find this information?
Making Connections:
1. Check out free SAT and ACT study helps and practice tests online.
2. Set up a reminder to check the SAT Question of the Day on the app. Make a game of using the question and answer in fun scenarios or accents to reinforce the learning.
3. Help your child find a coach or mentor to check in with (bug!) your student to encourage reaching exam score goals.
October Supports: 5th- , 8th- , 11th-grade
5th Grade October SEL & T24 Lessons Supports
October SEL Topic: Red Ribbon Week/Bullying
Conversation Starters:
1. What is the difference between laughing with someone or at someone? How would you recognize if the joking was hurting someone’s feelings?
2. Is everyone the same in the world? What would the world be like if everyone liked and did things exactly the same? Why is variety necessary? How do you treat people who are different from you?
3. What would you do if someone asked you to try a drug that you know is bad for you? Who is a trusted adult at school can you ask for help in this situation? (Parents: once the child gives you a name, please send that person an email to let him/her know they are your child’s “go-to” person.)
Making Connections:
1. Work through the What Should You Do? worksheet, and discuss each answer.
2. Cut pictures of healthy foods and activities from magazines or online. Create a Healthy Choices collage letting the child pick which pictures to include. Talk about why they chose the pictures and what could happen to their brains and bodies if they made a bad choice.
3. Drive by an area of town where homeless people live. Discuss the circumstances and consequences that may have resulted in having to live on the street.
October T-2-4 Topic: Careers in Arts, Audio Visual Technology and Communication
Conversation Starters:
1. Do you have an active imagination? Do you like to act things out? Do you like decorating your room? Would you be interested in a creative career? If not, what elements of art and communication are needed in other jobs?
2. Listen to the radio while driving in the car or watch television together. Which advertisements stand out? Which annoy you? What words or images are used to appeal to the audience they are trying to convince? What are the elements of the ad: voice, singing, music, call-to-action (BUY THIS, VOTE FOR…).
3. What is the name of your art teacher? What makes him/her think differently than other teachers? What is your favorite thing to do in that class?
Making Connections:
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Visit the Sawyer Yards where dozens of artists DO their work. Talk to the artists about how it is to make a living doing this (open house every second Saturday).
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Attend a performance and point out all the audiovisual technology being used: speakers, microphones, video, miles of cables, lighting, etc.Talk about the people who make this behind-the-scenes technology work for the audience’s enjoyment.
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Draw or paint an awesome picture. Take photos of it, and make a plan to “sell” it to a friend or family member. What is a fair price? How would you market it? How would you package it? Use this website for ideas.
8th Grade October SEL & T24 Lessons Supports
October SEL Topic: Drugs
Conversation Starters:
1. Research shows that young people who talk to adults regularly about the dangers of drugs are 42% less likely to use drugs. Why does this work? Why is the percentage not higher? Why do some adults not talk to children about this?
2. Why do some people choose to take illegal drugs? Is the risk worth the consequences?
3. Excessive drinking poses serious risks to physical development of teens, such as negative effects on reproductive system, liver damage, reduced growth potential of the limbs and the body, reduced memory. How might these facts affect your choices when pressured to partake?
Making Connections:
1. Participate in the Red Ribbon Week photo contest by decorating your home or school with a Life is a Journey. Travel Drug Free theme.
2. Make a chart with the harmful drug types listed in the Drug Facts Among Texas Youth 2016 report (see link below). Next to each, write the harmful short-and long-term effects of each.
3. Role-play with your student how to say “No” in various scenarios. Do reverse role-play and let the student be the person offering the illegal substances, and you, the adult, model how to say “no,” change the subject, walk away, etc.
October T-2-4 Topic: Naviance Cluster Finder
Conversation Starters
1. What is a career cluster? Which do you feel is the best fit for you? Which jobs in this cluster sound interesting to you?
2. What do your strengths, values, personality and skills have to do with finding a career path?
3. Do all careers need a college degree? What are some that DO and some that do not? What kind of degrees or certifications are needed for each?
Making Connections:
Use the Career Clusters link to look up five possible careers. Make a list of the best parts of each job or draw a picture of yourself doing this job.
Look at the SBISD Guthrie Center programs. Which are of interest? Which pathways offered here are of interest?
Think of songs or lyrics that mention different careers. How many can you list together?
11th grade October SEL & T24 Lessons Supports
October SEL Topic: Social Media 101
Conversation Starters:
1. What are some pros and cons of using social media? Which kinds of words or pictures cause problems for you or others?
2. What would you do if you saw a threatening post from someone you know? Someone you don’t know?
3. If you were hiring someone to work for you, what would you look for in their online postings that would make you want to hire him/her or NOT?
Making Connections:
1, Help the young person be involved in uplifting activities that could be posted to highlight character strengths (i.e. volunteering, personal performances, tutoring, job duties, cultural events, praise for friends’ accomplishments, etc.) to create a positive digital footprint. Present your best self on social media.
2. Identify trusted adults at school, and other settings away from campus, who your child can talk to if they see high-risk threats online. Make sure the adults’ contact information is readily accessible (contacts list, wallet card, etc.). Email each of the identified adults to let them know the young person has “chosen” them as a trusted, go-to person.
3. Talk about how “little kids” argue and call each other names immaturely. Think of hypothetical scenarios where conflict between people should be worked out in person vs. posting online. Discuss why “walking away” from a hurtful online post and talking through the situation with other person face-to-face with active listening is a more mature approach. Practice using the phrases in this article. Sometimes writing them down gets the ideas to stick in your mind so they are ready to use when needed.
Additional Resources:
A Teens Guide to Social Media Safety
October T-2-4 Topic: College Night
Conversation Starters:
1. Which college criteria matter to you? Size, location, climate, majors, supports, athletic programs, academic reputation, research? Which of these criteria align with your personality, strengths, preferences? Why or why not?
2. If you could go to ANY college in the state/country/world, where would you go? Why? Look up this college online, and see what the admission requirements are. Naviance is a great place to look at all colleges and universities under Super Match.
3. To get into college and receive scholarships, students need to write persuasive and personal essays. What characteristics and accomplishments about yourself are you most proud? What hardships have you overcome and what have you learned along the way? What would your brag sheet look like?
Making Connections:
1. Use the Prompts for College Essays to discuss and draft written responses.
2. If your student attended the SBISD College Fair on Oct. 8, develop a follow-up plan and schedule some college visits (some universities have virtual tours on their websites). These additional steps will show the universities you are truly interested in attending there and could favor your application over others.
3. Call at least one college representative, use the questions in the Tips for Talking to College Representatives to gather information about their university. Write down the kinds of questions they ask you so you are prepared for future calls and conversations.
Additional Resources:
Houston Area Recruiters Network
Tips for Talking to College Representatives
November Supports 5th-, 8th-, 11th-grade
5th grade November Supports
5th Grade November SEL Topic: Self-Awareness, Conflict Resolution
Conversation Starters:
1. What are six ways to disagree with someone without making everybody feel terrible?
2. What does the term common ground mean? What is an example of when you worked on a project or task with someone you did not agree with… how did you find common ground and make the project work?
3. What does win-win mean to you? What does compromise look or sound like?
Making Connections:
1, Help the young person be involved in uplifting activities that could be posted to highlight character strengths (i.e. volunteering, personal performances, tutoring, job duties, cultural events, praise for friends’ accomplishments, etc.) to create a positive digital footprint. Present your best self on social media.
2. Identify trusted adults at school, and other settings away from campus, who your child can talk to if they see high-risk threats online. Make sure the adults’ contact information is readily accessible (contacts list, wallet card, etc.). Email each of the identified adults to let them know the young person has “chosen” them as a trusted, go-to person.
3. Talk about how “little kids” argue and call each other names immaturely. Think of hypothetical scenarios where conflict between people should be worked out in person vs. posting online. Discuss why “walking away” from a hurtful online post and talking through the situation with the other person face-to-face with active listening is a more mature approach. Practice using the phrases in this article. Sometimes writing them down gets the ideas to stick in your mind so they are ready to use when needed.
Additional Resources (5th Grade, November):
Teaching Conflict Resolution Skills
Peaceful Conflict Resolution Toolkit
Self-Awareness Activities in Primary School Children
5th Grade November T-2-4 Topic: Gen-Tex Week, T-2-4 Plans
Conversation Starters:
1. Who do you know that went to college? Why do you think they went to college? What kinds of jobs do these people do?
2. What is a college mascot? What is the purpose of having one?
3. When people graduate from high school, are they done learning? What other learning is needed to get a good job?
Making Connections:
1. Write the student’s name vertically. For each letter of the alphabet, look at the list of college mascots and find one the student likes, and write down the name of the mascot and its university (example: B = Blue Jay from the University of Kansas). Use the links on the list to find an image of each mascot. Some can also be found here.
2. Use this handout to create a mix and match game. Go over the sheet discussing each term. Then cut the College Words and Definitions into separate sections, scramble them up, and see how quickly the student can match the words and definitions back together.
3. Use the Roadtrip Nation website to map out the student’s interests and preferences. Read about the Leaders who have similar roads. Which of these careers are most interesting to the student? Which require a college degree and which do not?
8th Grade November Supports
8th Grade November SEL Topic: Respect
Conversation Starters:
1. Why do you think some people use slurs against others?
2. What does respectful discussion sound/look/feel like?
3. What would you do if someone did not respect you?
Making Connections:
1. Some teams have offensive names (i.e. Redskins). Look up the team names in various sports leagues and discuss which might be offensive to certain people and why. Make fun suggestions about what the new names should be.
2. Make a list of possible slurs your child might hear, and develop an empowering response to each.
3. Write the word RESPECT with the letters going down the side of a page. Have your student share a way to show respect that starts with each letter (i.e. Recognize not everyone is like me).
Additional Resources:
8th Grade November T-2-4 Topic: Digital Footprint
Conversation Starters (for Parents & Mentors):
1. Once it is out there, it is out there. Discuss what it would feel like to have the most private part of your life on display for anyone in the world to see. If you think you are just sharing something with one person, likely it is accessible by multitudes. What can this do to your reputation? What kinds of things SHOULD be posted that will help your reputation?
1. Apps are Spies. What do “hunters” look for when they are tracking game? (foot/paw prints). What do detectives look for at a crime scene? (foot/tire prints) What do internet trolls look for to steal your identity, spread false information about you or even track you down? (digital footprint) What are some ways to keep your digital identity safe? How would you deal with a troll?
3. Imagine you owned a treasure chest. What kinds of valuables would you want to find in it? What would you do to protect the valuables? If you have lots of keys made and hand them out to everyone, or tell everyone where you have hidden it, how secure will the valuables be? Your online reputation and information are like a treasure chest. What should you do to protect them?
Making Connections:
1. Using good judgement about what to post. Draw a large square and imagine it is a bulletin board in the school hallway. Make a list of things that would be okay to “post” here for everyone to see (smiling photos, birthday party photos, hobbies, activities you enjoy Use a small box (or draw one) to put words into of things that should be kept private (full name, birthday, address, phone number, , date of birth, photos of vacations while on vacation, mean things about others, things your grandma would not be proud of!) if you
2. Look at the profiles and apps on your student’s or your phone or device. Make a list of the information a stranger could collect based on the types of apps downloaded, content posted, the websites they have visited, purchases they have made, games played, comments made on online forums. Who IS this person? List adjectives that would describe the person the digital footprint reveals. Look at the privacy settings of each app, and make sure they are set as tight as can be.
3. Making Passwords secure: What makes a strong password? (Capital letters, numbers and symbols) Make a list of possible passwords (pet names, name of best friend, birthday numbers, etc.) and add something to each one to make it more secure. Consider using the Dashlane app; it will store all passwords in one safe place, and will change weak passwords to be stronger.
Additional Resources
8 Tips to Manage Digital Footprint
App to generate and keep passwords safe
You Can’t Win an Argument with an Internet Troll, So What Can You Do?
11th Grade November Supports
11th Grade November SEL Topic: Drug Awareness
Conversation Starters
1. What are some reasons why drug abuse can cause a person to visit the emergency room? What is the cost—to the family? To society?
2. Imagine a scenario where everyone in a city decided to drink and/or take drugs, all at the same time? What would the consequences be to the city? Do you think our country, or the world, is headed in that direction? How can we turn the tide?
3. What harm do drugs do to your body parts? Short term? Long term? What harm do they do to relationships? Your values?
Making Connections Activity Suggestions
1. Ripple effects: Draw a word web. In the center circle, put the words “Drug User.” In the next ring of circles, write the people who are connected to or affected by the Drug User (i.e. mom, girl friend, boss, etc.). Connect these circles to more circles that describe the consequences (good or bad) that result of these people having the drug user in their life. How far out can you draw the repercussions? Is this fair?
2. Once upon a time… Take a look at the once upon a time photos (link below). Do these people look like they are having fun? A great life? What advice do you think they would give you? Is this the story you want for your life?
3. The effects of alcohol on the body begin to appear 30-40 seconds after drinking. Review the chart in the How Alcohol Affects the Body article (link below), and talk about the side effects of alcohol abuse, short term and long term.
Additional Resources
11th Grade November T-2-4 Topics: Career/Technical Education (CTE) & Technical School
Conversation Starters
1. In what ways could a person get into the workforce faster than taking time to attend four years of college? Take a look at The Best Jobs for Trade School Graduates article (link below) of high paying trade school jobs and see which ones your student is interested in thinking about?
2. What are the pros and cons of attending a trade/vocational school? What are the cost comparisons? Do you have to go TO a trade school to get certified? Are there some online options?
3. Some employers help pay for tuition if a student wants to get a further degree after working for a while. What do you think the benefit is for the employer? The employee?
Making Connections Activity Suggestions
1. Look at a posting for a job the student is interested in. What skills does the applicant need? Write a résumé for the “perfect person” for this job.
2. Look at the list of trade schools in Texas (link below). Click on the school name to explore which vocational programs they have. Choose one from four different parts of the state and make a comparison chart.
3. Look at the graph in the University, Community College or Trade School article (link below0. Discuss the financial benefits of completing some post-secondary course work vs. getting a job with or without a high school diploma. Complete a budget for a typical month (see link below) to see how much earnings a person needs to live comfortably in Houston.
Additional Resources
Top Ranked Vocational & Trade Institutions in Texas
The Best Jobs for Trade School Graduates
December Supports 5th-, 8th-, 11th -Grade
December 5th Grade Supports
5th Grade December SEL Topic: Respect, Citizenship, Accepting Differences
Conversation Starters:
1. What does your web look like? Who have your attracted into your web of support and friendship? How did you do this? If you are trapped in someone’s web who is not a good influence, how can you get out of it?
2. What are the character traits of a good citizen? What actions would show you that a person is a good citizen? Which do you do or wish you could do?
3. How are careers and good character connected? Which character traits are most important for being a respected employee? Which are most important for being a good boss?
Making Connections:
1. Write the letters R-E-S-P-E-C-T on index cards or strips of colored paper. On the back of each card, brainstorm with the student to write words starting with each letter that represent ways to show respect (i.e. R: Remember to say “please and Thank you.”). Hang all the cards from ribbons attached to a coat hanger to make a Respect mobile or from a rope to make a garland.
2. Alike and Different: Divide a piece of paper into two columns (or use this template). At the top of each column write the words Alike and Different. Using the student’s and a friend’s name, fill in the column with how the two are alike and different. Repeat the exercise with your name and the student’s name. Discuss what the student thinks is good or not so good about the similarities and differences, and what changes could make the relationships stronger.
3. Read a book together and then draw a picture of the main character in the middle of a paper. Write phrases and words around the drawing that describe how the character showed good citizenship (i.e. Was he/she kind, or helped the community, or made things better, etc.).
Additional Resources:
5th Grade December T-2-4 Topic: Hospitality and Tourism & Human Services Career Clusters
Conversation Starters:
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What is a customer? What skills does it take to make a customer happy? Why is it important in a business for customers to be happy? Where do you feel valued as a customer? Why?
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What do the words hospitality and hospitable mean? When hospitality is done well, how should you feel? What happens when an employee is not hospitable to you? How do you feel?
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Close your eyes and picture your last visit to the doctor’s office. How many people helped you? How did you know whether they liked their job or not?
Making Connections:
1. Look at a photo of a theme park. Race to see how many jobs are represented in the scene? Which jobs are necessary but not visible here? What does it take to run a theme park?
2. Look at the list of jobs in the Human Services cluster on this website. Think of someone the student knows who has one of these jobs or review one that aligns with the interests of the child. Review the description, the video, and level of education needed. Have the student draw a picture of herself/himself doing this job.
3. Do a service project to help someone in need. Make a list of places or people who need help, and think of one small thing your student can do to improve the situation. Examples: litter pick-up walk, weeding a garden, babysitting, collecting dog or cat food for an animal shelter, bringing treats to a fire station, visit an elderly person, make a tied fleece blanket for a homeless shelter, etc. Make photo montage showing before and after results.
Additional Resources:
8th Grade December Supports
8th Grade December SEL Topic: Caring
Conversation Starters:
1. I hear you have been learning about the difference between Sympathy and Empathy. How are they different? How are they alike?
2. How does empathy expand our self-centered universe?
3. Empathy is just like any other skill: the more we practice it, the stronger it gets. What are some ways you might work to expand your empathy by showing care and concern for others?
Making Connections:
1. Ask the student to identify a social injustice (current or in the past) his or she feels passionate about (i.e. homelessness, war, racism, religious oppression, immigration, etc.). Divide a piece of paper into four quadrants and label them Feel, Think, Say, Do. Write down at least one emotion the student feels about this topic, a thought connected to the emotion, what can be said that shows the student has experienced something similar, and what could/can/should be done to demonstrate empathy.
2. Bust or Boost—to learn what empathy is not review these empathy busters (see Activity 5). Then co-create or tell a story (verbal or written) where the main character has a problem, and different friends come along and DON’T show empathy using phrases from the empathy busting list. As each friend departs, include the main character’s feelings about how the friend’s words of ‘comfort’ didn’t really help the situation. The final friend in the story should show empathy by actively listening, seeing the situation from the main character’s point of view, and/or just showing understanding. Sum up how the main character felt once someone finally understood his/her situation.
3. Work through the Crying Baby worksheet together.
Additional Resources:
40 Kindness Activities & Empathy Worksheets
8th Grade December T-2-4 Topic: Career Pre-Planning
Conversation Starters (for Parents & Mentors):
1. What are some careers that have not been invented yet? What are some that have or are disappearing?
2. Why do people work? Why is it important to carefully choose a career? How can a career evolve into other possibilities? If you work for yourself, how can you do work that you like? Will you always like every part of a job?
3. Discuss what Minimum Wage means. What are the income differences between people who have a high school diploma vs. those who have a college degree? What do you think are the earning differences between men and women? Is this fair?
Making Connections:
1. Use this Interest Profiler to explore the world of work and find occupations relevant to the student’s likes and interests.
2. To practice in advance of Career Day in January, talk with your student about how to respectfully ask good questions of the professionals who will come to talk about their careers. Why is it important for SBISD students to make a good impression with the volunteers who will share their time on Career Day? How would the guest feel if students were rude or silly? Discuss why it is not polite to ask someone how much money they make.
3. Do you want to live with your parents forever? No! Use the Texas Reality Check tool to show how much living expenses will cost and how much the student will need to earn to pay for them. Choose three careers of interest to the student that would support the lifestyle he or she wants. Discuss what type of education each career option will need to be able to get a job.
Additional Resources
Suggested List of Questions to Ask Guest Speakers
How Much More Do College Graduates Earn than Non-College Graduates?
11th Grade December Supports
11th Grade December SEL Topic: Soft Skills
Conversation Starters:
1. What does Active Listening look like/sound like? What are some verbal and non-verbal skills you should have if you are a good listener?
2. What happens when you make assumptions about what someone is going to say or do?
3. What are the four parts of an “I” message? When should you use “I” messages?
Making Connections:
1. Examining assumptions: Look at pictures of three different people (online, in a magazine, etc.) You and the student each write down three “facts” you think are probably true about the people in the photos. Compare lists. What are some things you had in common on your lists? What assumptions were different? Do you think one of you is more right than the other? How do biases and prejudices contribute to our assumptions?
2. The importance of non-verbal communication: Stand back to back and one person talks for 30 seconds about what he/she did last weekend. The other person cannot ask any questions. Switch roles and repeat. Reflect: Did this feel natural? Did you miss anything in what the person said? Is it important to see the other person when talking with them? What non-verbal cues would have made the weekend descriptions easier to understand? When texting or talking on the phone, what parts of communication are present or missing? How can this contribute to misunderstandings?
3. Use the “Feedback Formula” to practice conversations about real or potential conflicts.
Additional Resources:
10 Lessons for Teaching Conflict Resolution Skills
11th Grade December T-2-4 Topic: Career Exploration
Conversation Starters:
1. What is your goal for having a job? What will you spend your pay on? How much should you save?
2. What do you think is a reasonable amount of hours to work each week for a high school student? Make a time budget to figure out what will need to shift in order to have a job.
3. Whose responsibility is it to find a job? What sets you apart from other applicants? What does a person need to do to keep a job? Why is it important to have a good work reputation?
Making Connections:
1. Look up some job applications online to see what kinds of information are required. Discuss why a potential employer will want to know the student’s salary history. Talk about how to use responsibilities at home, as a volunteer and at school as work experience.
2. Rehearse an interview with the student by asking typical interview questions. Help him/her formulate good, thoughtful answers. Try to not say “Ummm,” “Ya’ Know,” “Like,’ etc.. Put a quarter in a jar every time you catch each other saying things like this in order to break the habit.
3. Role play two scenarios using this article (Tips for Keeping the Job You Have) as a guide. Scenario 1: you pretend to be an employee who does NOT use these tips… what would this look like, sound like? Scenario 2: the student plays the part of an employee who follows these tips. Discuss how generational, gender or cultural differences might affect a boss’ perception of whether the student is a valuable employee or not.
Additional Resources
February Supports 5th-, 8th-, 11th-Grade
February 5th Grade Supports
5th Grade February SEL Topic: Caring/Kindness/Empathy
Conversation Starters:
1. Talk about what is a Random Act of Kindness, and how it should be as anonymous as possible. How do you feel when you secretly do something awesome for someone? How do you think the person receiving the Act feels?
2. How powerful are words? What happens when mean words are said? What happens to people when they hear nice words about themselves? What would happen in your school/home/city/state/country/world if everyone only said positive things? How can you set an example for others to follow?
3. What are some things you can do to notice when someone else needs help, and then help them?! At home? At school? What can you do if you are not able to help someone?
Making Connections:
1. Doing something nice in a secret way is fun. It is not important to get a ‘wow!’ or “thank you”… you just quietly know in your heart that you made someone happy. Make a list Random Acts of Kindnesses the student could do. Let the student choose seven to do for one week. Write them on a calendar and ask for feedback after the week is finished. Should this become a habit?
2. Ask the student to write the names (vertically) of two or three friends. Next to each letter, write a kind or positive word that describes the friend. i.e. NATHAN: N = nice, A = athletic, etc. Make sentences the student could use to give compliments to these friends and others.
3. Watch The Giving Tree video. What lessons did you learn? Who is like the tree in your life? Draw a picture of a tree, and write on each branch the things from YOU that you can give away and be happy.
Additional Resources:
5th Grade February T-2-4 Topic: Manufacturing & Healthcare Career Clusters
Conversation Starters:
1. Do you know anyone who works in the healthcare industry? Why does our city need people who work in healthcare? Which healthcare jobs or tasks can you think of that could be done by robots? Which cannot? Why not?
2. Look at the list of manufacturing jobs available in Houston. Which are interesting to you? Using the Salary estimate on the side of the page, see how many jobs are listed in each $ range. Do the same with healthcare job listings. What do you see that is different?
Making Connections:
1. Look around the room. Discuss what kinds of careers it took for each item (i.e. carpet, chair, window, blinds, air conditioning, etc.) to be there: designer, raw materials, manufacturer, delivery, installation, etc. See how many jobs you can list. Try to get to at least 20.
2. Open this article about the Texas Medical Center. Go through each of the photos at the top of the article. From each caption, write down the number mentioned. Which is the biggest number on your list? Do you think working here will still be possible when you are an adult? Why or why not? What kinds of skills or personality traits will it take to work there?
3. Gather several small items (i.e. Legos, paper clips, ribbon, sticks, cotton balls, glue, markers, cardboard, etc.) and ask the student to make a new “thing-a-ma-widget” from these four or five of the “raw materials.” Discuss: What would it take to make 100 or 1000 of these new things? How many of each item will need to be delivered to your workshop or warehouse to manufacture these quantities? How many people would need to work there to get them done in one day? Make a worksheet listing all the components necessary. Make a job description for the employees.
Additional Resources
February 8th Grade Supports
February 8th Grade SEL Topic: Teen Dating Violence
Conversation Starters:
1. Talk about how romance was for you in middle and high school. What is different today? What precautions should be in place?
2. Do you think “true love” is possible in middle school? How many adults do you know who are with their middle or high school boyfriends/girlfriends?
3. What are some healthy boundaries that should be set if you or your friends have a relationship in middle or high school? What will you do if someone restricts your ability to be yourself and be safe?
Making Connections:
1. Talk about how romance was for you in middle and high school. What is different today? What precautions should be in place?
2. Do you think “true love” is possible in middle school? How many adults do you know who are with their middle or high school boyfriends/girlfriends?
3. What are some healthy boundaries that should be set if you or your friends have a relationship in middle or high school? What will you do if someone restricts your ability to be yourself and be safe?
8th Grade February T-2-4 Topic: High School Course & Endorsement Selection
Conversation Starters:
1. Which career speaker most influenced your decision when you selected your Endorsement for high school? If you had to start a career tomorrow, what would you like to do?
2. Why will it be very important to pass the math and reading on the STAAR test this year? What will happen to your high school schedule if you don’t pass?
3. When you think about being in high school next year: what excites you? What scares you? What do you think will be the same? Different?
Making Connections:
1. Start getting more organized now, so when you get to high school, it is a habit. Track assignments, field trips, volunteer work schedule, etc. in an online calendar on your phone or in a planner. Print out or buy a planner/calendar or use this one to start to fill it in with your life and school stuff this spring.
2. Use the questions and road map suggestions in this article to begin to take steps now to be ready for high school.
3. Make a list of the things you were IN to in 4thgrade (suggestions here). Make a list of fads you like now (8th grade)—are any the same? Do you see a theme that is evolving as you get older? Do you think you will like the same things when you are a senior in high school? Travel into the future, and make a list of what you think you will like in 2023. What does this evolution teach you?
11th Grade February Supports
11th Grade February SEL Topic: Dating Violence
Conversation Starters:
1. What forms of physical and emotional violence in relationships do abusers use to get and gain power and control? How can these escalate from verbal to physical abuse?
2. What are the first steps you should take if you have a concern about an action or behavior in a relationship?
3. What is the connection between self-esteem and dating violence? Why do people stay in abusive relationships? What do you think should be done about this?
Making Connections:
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Which parts of the Dating Bill of Rights would you feel comfortable communicating to a dating partner? Which would be difficult? Practice stating these rights in your own words to affirm your rights to yourself.
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Start a Love is Respect campaign at your school. Ideas are here.
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Take the Dating Abuse Quiz. Are you in any of these situations? Do you have friends who are? What should you do?
Additional Resources:
National Domestic Violence Hotline; 1-800-799-7233
Defining a Healthy Relationship for Teens
Is Change Possible in an Abuser?
Respect: Types of Dating Violence
Dating Violence Lesson Plan (scenarios, warning signs, cycles)
11th Grade February T-2-4 Topic: Are You On Track to Graduate?
Conversation Starters:
1. According to an article in U.S.News & World Report, a record number of students are on track to graduate from high school in 2020. Low income and minority students still lag behind. Why do you think this is the case? What ideas do you have to bridge the gap? What do record numbers of graduate s mean for: a. getting into college? b. finding a job.
2. When you were in 8th grade, you chose an Endorsement for high school in order to earn the Distinguished Level of Achievement. What is your Endorsement? Are you on track to have this Endorsement on your transcript when you graduate? What are the benefits of graduating with this achievement?
3. This month, you are meeting with your high school counselor to be sure your graduation plan is on track. Why do you think it is important to be sure now vs. at this time next year? What part of this process is your responsibility?
Making Connections:
1. Review your progress toward graduation in Skyward Family Access – Grad Reqs and Endorsement modules. Take note of any gaps. What is your plan to get on track?
2. Finish Strong—this is it! Spring semester of your junior year is really the final time to get your grades in stellar shape prior to college and career applications taking place in the fall of your senior year. Open your Naviance account and use the Super Match feature to see the GPA expectations at colleges you are interested in attending after graduation. Set goals to get your grades into this range before the end of your junior year. Discuss why colleges and technical schools care about your grades (use them to accept the best candidates)
3. Plan to take the SAT and ACT multiple times between now and the fall. Look at the testing schedules and sign up for upcoming tests now (fee waivers are available for students on Free or Reduced lunch plans). Use a planner to make a study schedule prior to each exam date, using study tips, KhanAcademy.com, Schmoop (enter magic word: SPRINGBRANCHROCKS), and other websites.
4. Make a list of the places and props you will use for your Senior Pictures next year. Which of these ideas do you like?
March Supports 5th-, 8th-, 11th-Grades
March 5th Grade Supports
Conversation Starters
- Are people who complete homework assignments more prepared for and less stressed about taking a test? What happens to you when you are worried about a test or grade? What are some ideas you have to stay prepared for tests (they aren’t going away!)?
- What do you do to stay calm? What do you do to keep yourself in control of your emotions? What have you seen other people doing that you might want to try?
- What is your favorite place to play? What is the most beautiful place you have ever seen? What is your favorite taste? What is your favorite music? How can thinking of these things help you be positive?
Making Connections
- Let’s close our eyes and take notice of: what is around us that we can hear/smell/taste/feel. Now let’s pay attention to what we are thinking about yourself, about others, who needs compassion.
- Look at this list of healthy, protein-rich breakfast foods. Draw a picture of a breakfast that will help you be most prepared for a test. Talk about how to prepare each item in the picture… are there some things that students can make themselves? What are the benefits of eating protein before a test?
- Try a few of these calming strategies. After each one, say a word that describes how you feel. Which one could you do in class? Which the night before a test?
Resources:
How much protein do kids need in a day?
8 Surprising Ways to Boost Your Child’s Confidence Before a Test
5th Grade March T-2-4 Topic: Careers in Information Technology, Government & Public Administration
Conversation Starters
1. What kinds of skills do you think it takes to be a software designer? A mail delivery person? A teacher? An Ambassador? The president of the U.S.?
2. What levels of government do people work in? Since governments do not sell a product, how do they get money to pay their workers? Why are government jobs important to your neighborhood? City? State? Country?
3. Some people can speak more than one language. Why would this be useful for a job at a company that does computer security? Who works for the US government? What languages do you speak? Which ones should you learn to get a good job in the future?
Making Connections
1. Write down the student’s name. Next to each letter of the name, write down an occupation in the Technology or government services field that starts with that letter, preferably jobs that are of interest to the student.
2. Look at the list of careers in the Government and Public Administration and Information Technology sections of this list. Have the student close his/her eyes and point to several different, random videos to watch. At the end of each video, tell the student about someone you know who has that job, OR let them do thumbs up or thumbs down to indicate whether they would like that kind of job. Keep a running list of the ones they like. What do they have in common?
3. Write two letters to a teacher, family member or friend. Send one via your or the student’s email address and talk about how this will get to the other person. What would happen if it didn’t get there? Then send another via US mail. Why is an address important? What happens if the mail people cannot read your handwriting? What if a number is wrong or missing? What is the purpose of a Zip Code? A stamp? Mail deliverer?
Resources:
March 8th Grade Supports
March 8th Grade SEL Topic: Self-Care
Conversation Starters
1. In what ways do you take good care of yourself? Which habits need improvement? Why is it important to take care of YOURself? Who else could or should do it for you?
2. What happens when your mind wanders? What happens to your mood and your relationships when you focus on the positives instead of negatives?
3. What is the difference between self-care and self-indulgence? What happens when indulgences veer into the realm of self-destruction? How does the idea of self-care intersect with self-preservation?
Making Connections
1. Think of the calmest place you have ever been, or the most beautiful. What about this place made you content? Practice closing your eyes and taking a mini-vacation to that place. Describe it to your parent or mentor. Ask them to do the same.
2. There are several apps available to help you be more mindful. Check out the list and see which ones would be most helpful to you. Are there other ways to do these without an app for guidance?
3. Affirmation Notes: Zero in on a bad habit you would like to change and why. Then make affirmation notes on sticky notes and post them at home, inside your backpack or locker, in your closet, etc. They should be phrased as positive statements. For example: (to exercise more) I move my body to keep it strong and healthy.
Resources
8th Grade March T-2-4 Topic: Self-Care with a T-2-4 Lens
Conversation Starters
1. Take a walk outside. Notice as many sounds, animals, colors, as possible. Each of you mention one every 30 seconds.
2. What is your “still quiet place” you can go to when you are upset, worried, stressed?
3. Do you have a choice whether to do things that are good or bad for your mental and physical well-being? How is this connected to life-long health and your ability to be an awesome adult? Review the ideas for dealing with workplace stress in this article to show that these skills are needed for coping even when they grow up.
Making Connections
1. List the careers of 5 people you know. What seems to make them happy there? What is stressful? What techniques for staying calm have you learned that could help them?
2. Jump up and down, or walk briskly down the hall. Then stop to notice your heartbeat. Notice as it slows down. Talk about how this could also work when the student is in a stressful situation.
3. Mind Mapping: Think of a bad habit you have. Write it in the middle of a circle. Draw other circles around the center circle and connect them with lines to the bad habit circle. In each of the satellite circles, write a strategy for breaking the bad habit. Connect other circles/lines to the strategy circles and write in frequencies, supplies needed, who will benefit, etc.
Resources
Three ways for Children to Try Meditation at Home
Mindfulness Activities for Children and Teens[WB1]
Science Shows Meditation Benefits Children’s Brains and Behavior
11th Grade March Supports
11th Grade March SEL Topic: Interpersonal Relationships
Conversation Starters
1. What does agree to disagree mean to you? At what point in a conversation should you use this phrase?
2. Who do you respect? What have they done to earn your respect? Who has lost your respect and why? What good things come your way when you show respect for others?
3. Interpersonal relationships require trust, loyalty, respect and commitment. How would you grow these ingredients digitally vs. in-person?
Making Connections
1. Write down the name of 5-10 people you know: parents, siblings, friends, coworkers, teachers, etc. Be sure to have at least 2-3 people with whom you struggle to have a good relationship. Next to each name, write down a sincere compliment for that person. Decide how to share the compliments with the people on the list (digitally, in person, in writing, demonstrating it some other way). How do you think each person will react to the compliment? How will it make you feel to share it?
2. Use body language and personal space to demonstrate the following emotions: boredom, interest, empathy, sympathy, happy, sad, mad, fear, respect, surprise, affection, disgust. Discuss the importance of body language when growing an interpersonal relationship. How can you control negative body language?
Resources:
Lesson and activities for teaching respect
11th Grade March T24 Topic: Resume Builder
Conversation Starters
1. What is the purpose of a resume? How would a resume for a college application differ from a job application? Which achievements should or should not be listed?
2. What can you do to BUILD your resume? What kinds of non-paid experiences have you had at home, in church, in school groups, etc. that can be listed on your resume to show: responsibility, skills, leadership?
3. Recruiters for jobs and colleges want to know what you are doing outside of school hours. What would you SAY if asked, and how would you write it on a resume?
Making Connections
1. List experiences you have had that show maturity and responsibility. Don’t forget responsibilities you have had at home (i.e. babysitting—use the words child care instead). Change the phrases to be in active voice. Example: I wrote vs. I have written. How does each activity enhance your communication, problem-solve and technical skills?
2. Take a look at the list of action verbs. Which ones should would make your experiences come to life on your resume?
3. Is your email address professional enough? Make a new one if yours is something like twinkletoes@gmail.com.
Resources
April Supports 5th-, 8th-, 11th-Grades
5th Grade April Supports
5th-Grade April SEL Topic: Perseverance
Conversation Starters:
1. Read a story together. Which characters showed perseverance? How did this trait benefit the character(s) in the short run? In the long run?
2. Look up these words in a dictionary: perseverance, tenacity, adversity, persistence, grit, failures, overcoming, risks. How do these words tie together? How does this relate to studying in school? What are some ways you can learn perseverance?
3. Talk about a time when you (the adult) were discouraged, but kept trying until you reached success. Ask the student if your story reminds him/her of anything they are going through. Discuss how the disappointments can turn into valuable lessons. Praise the student for the trying, not the end result.
Making Connections:
1. Use this article or this video to learn to tie some knots using a rope or shoelace. Point out to the child that it takes a while to learn something new. Keep trying until the students gets to the point the handout or video is not needed to do it right. Once learned use one of the knots to attach two things together. Ask: How does it feel to learn something new after trying so many times?
2. Watch the video in this article together. Use the video debrief questions to discuss what the llama went through, and how it ended up to his benefit to keep trying.
3. Freeze a coin in an ice cube, and tell your student to get it out without out smashing or putting it in the mouth. What how many creative ways can they come up with to get the coin? Of course you get to keep it!
Additional Resources:
5th Grade April T-2-4 Topic: Agriculture, Food and Natural Resources
Conversation Starters
1. Why is it important for kids to get interested in a career in the field of natural resources? What would happen if people were not studying and taking care of our natural resources?
2. What is the connection between people who work in the Agriculture field and others who work in Natural Resources-focused jobs? Do they need each other?
3. Do all crops contribute to our food supply? What are some that do not? i.e. cotton, trees, lavender, etc. Point out items around the house, school and neighborhood made from plant-based products and underscore the idea that someone somewhere had to grow these plants before they became products.
Making Connections:
1. Plan a menu for your favorite dinner. Find a recipe for each item and make a grocery list. Think about where each ingredient comes from, and what kinds of jobs were involved along the way to get it to the store (farmer, truck driver, box maker, scientist, etc.).
2. Start an “adopt a tree” campaign on your campus or in your neighborhood. Get your friends and family involved in watering, feeding, and measuring the growth of “their” trees. Collect seeds from the parent trees and start baby trees. How will this effort make the future better?
3. On a United States map, write in one crop that grows well in each state using this list. Put a star next to the foods you like best.
Additional Resources
8th Grade April Supports
8th-Grade April SEL Topic: Interpersonal Relationships/Cultural Diversity
Conversation Starters:
1. From which countries or backgrounds do some of the kids at your school come? What do they have in common with your culture? What is different? Is there something wrong with being different? Why are some people are afraid of people not like them? What are some ideas to bridge differences?
2. What are good things to do to build a relationship with a new person? What would not be helpful?
3. Culture is a shared set of practices and traditions that characterize a society or group of people. What characterizes yours? Your friend’s? Your teacher’s?
Making Connections:
1. What would happen if we said all people with brown eyes are bad? When we stereotype people, sometimes we say, “All ______ do that,” we lump all people from one group into a specific behavior. A challenge: Every time you or someone in your family says “All those _____ are like that,” put a quarter needs into a jar because it is not right to lump behaviors by groups. Use the money collected to buy something for a friend who is different from you.
2. Culture is a shared set of practices and traditions that characterize a society or group of people. Make a list visible things that show cultural things, food, clothing, ceremonies, language, etc.) Next to each item, list how these look like in at least three different cultures. Then, invent a make-believe culture. What will the cultural items on your list look like in this new culture. What do they all have in common with your culture?
Additional Resources:
50 Tips on How to Make Friends
5th Grade April T-2-4 Topic: Agriculture, Food and Natural Resources
Conversation Starters
1. Why is it important for kids to get interested in a career in the field of natural resources? What would happen if people were not studying and taking care of our natural resources?
2. What is the connection between people who work in the Agriculture field and others who work in Natural Resources-focused jobs? Do they need each other?
3. Do all crops contribute to our food supply? What are some that do not? i.e. cotton, trees, lavender, etc. Point out items around the house, school and neighborhood made from plant-based products and underscore the idea that someone somewhere had to grow these plants before they became products.
Making Connections:
1. Plan a menu for your favorite dinner. Find a recipe for each item and make a grocery list. Think about where each ingredient comes from, and what kinds of jobs were involved along the way to get it to the store (farmer, truck driver, box maker, scientist, etc.).
2. Start an “adopt a tree” campaign on your campus or in your neighborhood. Get your friends and family involved in watering, feeding, and measuring the growth of “their” trees. Collect seeds from the parent trees and start baby trees. How will this effort make the future better?
3. On a United States map, write in one crop that grows well in each state using this list. Put a star next to the foods you like best.
Additional Resources